The adventures of a kinky, pansexual, and polyamorous woman and the toys and people she plays with…
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general? If I’m topping someone younger than me, I have them refer to me as ‘Miss’. If they’re older, I’m ‘Ma’am’. Because I am evil and like [...]
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? What I wear during a scene tends to reflect my mood. If I’m subbing, my outfit tends to be a bit on the slutty side and easy to take off. For example, the last play party I [...]
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? Hrm. The only thing I’ve found that has really crossed over was that I had no interest in medical play in a kink sense until I started my paramedic training. I’ve found that I love needles and bloodplay, [...]
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Ehhh. If we’re talking about online play, in which the people are IM-ing dirty stuff at each other, then I’m not a fan. It’s just mutual masturbation with a kinky bent to it. For kinky play to work for me, I need hands on my flesh, [...]
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? I’m not in my professional life. Despite all the joking comments made in EMS and Fire about kinky stuff, most of my co-workers would not be ok with me being kinky to the extent I am, and them knowing could negatively effect my career. In my [...]
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner? I want partners who are honest, intelligent, trustworthy, honourable, and that I can laugh with. If I wouldn’t want to be friends with you outside of the bedroom, you aren’t going to be sleeping with me. Tweet
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so? I’d say my interests have changed a lot, in that I’ve become a lot more open minded towards certain kinks and lifestyle choices. I went from being a ‘only a little bit of rough play’ kinkster, to someone who [...]
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship? Communication! Dear gods, communication. Your dom/sub/whatever can’t read your gorram mind! If you don’t like the way I am topping/bottoming, tell me flat out. Giving me subtle hints as to what you really [...]
Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) I feel almost embarrassed to admit this, but I have never read any BDSM related books! I get my kinky writing fixes through fan fiction, and have since I first started reading erotica. I have specific writing styles I like, and it seems that most published [...]
Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand. Well, I’ve already chatted about kinks that I’m curious about, so now it’s time for something completely different /Monty Python One of the kinks I’ve encountered that I don’t understand is Diaper fetishes. If that’s your thing, that’s cool, but I have no [...]