The adventures of a kinky, pansexual, and polyamorous woman and the toys and people she plays with…
Are you looking for a new and unique toy to add to your toybox or bag? Is the masochist in your life giggling at the thought of almost everything you pull out? Sit down, and let me tell you why you need this paddle in your life. You can read my full review here, and [...]
The Bondage Boutique Hog Hide Twelve Tail Flogger was sent to me by Lovehoney for review, and I had hoped that it would be similar to a particularly stingy and evil flogger I had seen before but couldn’t afford. This flogger measures 31 inches overall, and the tails are 22.5 inches. Each fall is braided, [...]
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It’s no secret that I’m picky about my porn. I want to watch performers who have chemistry together, who are having fun, and who aren’t faking their orgasms. I recently got a chance to explore the Crash Pad Series, and I’m so glad I did! The layout is easy to navigate: you can view episodes [...]
So, you’ve read ’50 Shades of Grey’, and now you want to start spanking and paddling and tying your partner up. That’s great! Just make sure you’re doing it safely. Handcuffs seem like a great idea, but in reality, they can be unsafe. If your partner is someone who likes to pull at their restraints [...]
We had wanted to push. Limits, boundaries, break out of the comfortable little boxes in our head, he and I. ‘Hey, why not do a consensual non-consent scene?’ I had asked, stupidly. Bigby agreed, and we’d set up a time, roughly. Picked a night when we wouldn’t be at his house or mine, and I [...]
Yes, I just started my review out with a Star Wars reference. Yes, I really am that much of a nerd. And yes, the only good things to come out of ‘Episode I’ was Darth Maul, and a chance to see Liam Neeson and Ewan McGregor wielding lightsabers. This electrical toy is infinitely cooler than [...]
I am not someone who identifies as femme, but lately in my kinky life, I’ve enjoyed playing off the fact that I am young, cute and curvy to mess with people’s heads. My play piercing needles and scalpels live in a Hello Kitty lunchbox, my gloves that I wear during rough body play are pink, [...]
1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically? Making cute boys hurt and cry makes me giggle. Why, yes. I do have a touch of sadist to me. 2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they? Oh gods. Too many to list. Right now, some of my main ones [...]
I went to visit Bigby last week. For those of you not following along at home, Bigby is the shiny new sadist in my life. His nickname is a nod to a comic book character I’m rather fond of (Hint: the comic series is put out by Vertigo), as well as his lupine tendencies. I [...]